How can I have good safe sex, there is no such thing? This is a common complaint from men, who say that sex with a condom is not enjoyable for them. Is there such a thing as good safe sex, or are you destined to a life of protection but no pleasure?

Of course there is such a thing as good safe sex. In fact, many men do not mind the sensation of a condom at all. If you do not like sex with a condom than perhaps you need to experiment with a variety of different brands or types. There are a number of very thin condoms on the market these days which are said to enhance the sensation that a man feels during sex. A new polyurethane condom by the makers of Durex offers the thinnest condom ever created, which is said to feel the most like the real thing. Another option is using a female condom. Created from polyurethane, a female condom conducts heat which intensifies the pleasure for both partners. And because the male is not restricted, this might be preferred.

With a little experimentation, you can have good safe sex. The bottom line is that unprotected sex is not safe unless you are in a monogamous relationship with a partner that has been tested for sexually transmitted diseases, so experiment a little bit until you find a condom that works for you.